致妙清：和解与新生

昨天下午，如往常一样沉浸在工作中的我，遭遇了一个意想不到的场景。那个与我计较、闹矛盾长达八年的科主任，竟带着他的娃娃来到了办公室。

那是一个可爱乖巧的孩子，大大的眼睛里透着纯真。我下意识地从抽屉里拿出一个零食递给了孩子。而科主任，这位与我多年不和的人，教导他的娃娃对我说谢谢。就是这一句简单而真挚的谢谢，仿佛一道闪电，瞬间击中了我的内心，让我再也无法抑制自己的情绪，走出办公室，泪水夺眶而出。

回首这八年，我们之间的矛盾就像一道道深深的沟壑，横亘在彼此的工作与生活之中。每一次的争执，每一次的冷战，都让这沟壑变得更深更宽。手术后的一年，当他受到通报批评时，我甚至曾幸灾乐祸。“本是同根生，相煎何太急。”如今想来，当时的自己是多么狭隘和短视。

“渡尽劫波兄弟在，相逢一笑泯恩仇。”这一句谢谢，如同春风化雨，让我心中的坚冰开始融化。在那一刻，我突然意识到，我们之间的争斗是多么的无谓和可笑。曾经的那些计较、那些怨恨，在孩子天真无邪的谢谢声中，显得如此微不足道。

这八年的矛盾，让我身心俱疲。我在这怨恨的漩涡中越陷越深，几乎迷失了自己。而此刻，这声谢谢宛如一盏明灯，照亮了我内心黑暗的角落，让我看到了自己的丑陋与不堪。

“知错能改，善莫大焉。”我为自己曾经的幸灾乐祸感到无比愧疚。这愧疚如同一把重锤，不断地敲击着我的心灵。我深知，只有放下过去的怨恨，才能真正地解脱自己，才能重新找回那个充满善意和宽容的自我。

孩子的那句谢谢，是那么纯净，没有丝毫的杂质。它让我看到了生活中最本真的美好，让我明白了人与人之间应该充满关爱和理解，而不是争斗和怨恨。

在未来的日子里，我愿以这声谢谢为起点，重新审视自己的为人处世。不再让怨恨蒙蔽自己的双眼，不再让矛盾侵蚀自己的心灵。我要学会宽容，学会理解，用爱去化解一切的不快。

“沉舟侧畔千帆过，病树前头万木春。”过去的就让它过去吧，我要勇敢地迎接新的开始，用一颗宽容的心去对待每一个人，每一件事。愿我们都能放下过往的恩怨，拥抱美好的未来。

"Reconciliation and Rebirth"

Yesterday afternoon, while I was engrossed in work as usual, I encountered an unexpected scene. The department director, with whom I had been calculating and in conflict for eight years, came to the office with his child.

It was a lovely and well-behaved child, with big innocent eyes. Subconsciously, I took out a snack from the drawer and handed it to the child. And the department director, the person who had been at odds with me for years, taught his child to say thank you to me. Just this simple and sincere thank you was like a lightning bolt that instantly struck my heart. I couldn't hold back my emotions anymore. I walked out of the office, and tears streamed down my face.

Looking back over these eight years, the conflicts between us were like deep ravines, lying across our work and life. Every argument and every cold war made these ravines deeper and wider. One year after my surgery, when he was criticized in a notice, I even took pleasure in his misfortune. "We are from the same root; why should we be so eager to torment each other?" Now thinking about it, how narrow-minded and short-sighted I was at that time.

"After surviving the hardships, brothers still remain. When meeting again, a smile can bury the grudges." This thank you was like the spring rain that melted the ice in my heart. At that moment, I suddenly realized how meaningless and ridiculous our struggles were. The calculations and resentments in the past seemed so insignificant in the innocent thank you from the child.

These eight years of conflicts have exhausted me physically and mentally. I was trapped deeper and deeper in this vortex of resentment and almost lost myself. And at this moment, this thank you was like a bright lamp that illuminated the dark corners of my heart and made me see my own ugliness and disgrace.

"It is never too late to mend." I felt extremely guilty for my past幸灾乐祸. This guilt was like a heavy hammer that kept pounding my heart. I deeply understand that only by letting go of the past resentment can I truly liberate myself and regain the self that is full of kindness and tolerance.

The child's thank you was so pure, without the slightest impurity. It made me see the most genuine beauty in life and made me understand that there should be care and understanding between people instead of struggles and resentments.

In the days to come, I am willing to take this thank you as a starting point to re-examine my way of dealing with people and things. I will no longer let resentment blind my eyes or let conflicts erode my heart. I will learn to be tolerant, to understand, and to dissolve all unhappiness with love.

"By the side of the sunken boat, thousands of sails pass by; before the withered tree, thousands of trees thrive." Let bygones be bygones. I will bravely embrace a new beginning and treat everyone and everything with a tolerant heart. May we all let go of past grievances and embrace a beautiful future.